By Janice Terra
Lady Horse Whisperer (LHW)
STAND STILL!
First and last impressions are the most important of any interaction – especially with your horse. What I see time and again are riders permitting their horses to move as they mount. This is as dangerous for you as it is confusing for your horse.
Confusing? For the horse? Yes! As the rider you are supposed to be the leader, and the very first interaction of your ride is to turn total control over to your horse and tell him that he really is the leader after all! Then ~ you have to work to get him to listen so that you can even begin your training. See how confusing that is for your poor horse?
Most horses learn to move while being mounted because of imbalanced riders pulling the horses so off balance to begin with, that they have to move in order to maintain balance. I have seen a cowboy mount with no girth whatsoever! Now – that is balance folks!
And the dangerous part? You are attempting to mount a moving object; all the while gravity is doing its best job to bring you back to the earth – affectionately known as the ground when you hit it!
Okay – now that we’ve got that out of the way – LET’S FIX IT!
The SOP (standard operating procedure) that I see is to jerk hard on the reins ~ and if that doesn’t work – jerk harder! Let’s try a different approach. This is the method that I use to fix this problem. It is usually accomplished in just one session.
First of all ~ bring the mounting block to the horse – not vice-versa. Then just stand there. Do nothing. The horse is expecting you to mount – do what he does not expect – which is nothing. This will cause him to think rather than react.
Do not hold him! This is important. I do not believe in holding horses. That is ludicrous! How can you possibly hold 1200 lbs.? If he moves ~ just move him back to the same spot and just stand there until he just stands there.
When that is accomplished – step up to the 1st step of the mounting block with no intention in your mind whatsoever of mounting him. Just stand there and take a few deep breaths. Wait until he relaxes. If he moves – put him back and start over. He must stand still for every phase. After he stands perfectly still for every step in the mounting block at least 3 times – then mount. If he moves – jump off (do not step off) – and put him back in position and start over. Continue until he stands there. Remember to breathe through every phase.
If you are mounting from the ground rather than from a block, this is the procedure: Stand still beside the horse as directed above. Then put your foot in the stirrup with NO pressure on it whatsoever, with no intention of mounting. Do not hold the reins, but, yes, use them to reposition him if necessary. When he stands still for that procedure at least 3 times, then put pressure on the foot – but again, with no intention of mounting. Continue this process until you can mount without holding the reins. Be sure to mount and dismount several times, and praise him when he stands still for you.
Please ~ do not praise by “patting”. Horses hate that – they’ve just learned to tolerate it. Praise him by using words in a soft voice and scratching the side of his neck. That is what they really like.
I realize that this sounds entirely too simple ~ and ~ that is the problem. Humans want things to be complicated. The more complicated it is – the better it must be. Nature doesn’t think like that. Simple and direct. This they understand. This has been a tried and true method I’ve used for over 30 years. It works. Some horses just may take longer than others, but the usual time frame is one to two 20 minute sessions, and it’s permanent. Just always follow up and mean what you say.
HAPPY TRAILS!
Janice Terra
The Lady Horse Whisperer
Janice is the Lady Horse Whisperer (LHW). She has worked with riders and horses for more than 30 years. As an international trainer and author, Janice has lectured and trained NASA scientists, equine police units, corporate management, helped cancer patients and more. Janice has worked in the equine industry in a number of capacities, including riding instructor, trainer, breeder, stable manager, and has been retained as an expert in her field to give testimony in a court of law.











